LIVE INS AND WE..

Live In Relationships are not only about SEX!!!!!

We Indians have still not accepted the idea of LiveIns. A woman and man staying together before marriage is still considered a taboo in our society.

Parents still will never approve of us staying together with d person we are in love with.

This is where we still lag..

Couples going for living together not because of the reason to have sex everyday.

People opt for this to grow as a couple.LiveIns arre not only getting back from work and jumping onto each other for sex.If a man and woman have decided to get into a relationship,they have to accept each other in all forms,at all times of the day even when he farts or when she is in her periods.

Lets come to the society now.If our society is not ready to accept LiveIns then they have to accept the divorced ones with open arms. The society tells us to dive into the deep water without even looking into the depth of the water.

I am into a relationship with my man for the last 4 years,still I will say I am not ready to marry him because I don't know what this man does when he is upset,what is the one thing that this person loves to have in the morning,What this man does when he wakes up in the middle of the night.Nor the person does how am I when I am going through my periods,whether I snore at nights.

Relationships are not like waking up next to the person I love the most.But it is about accepting each other with all the flaws and habits.

People say the divorce rate have grown now. Of course they will grow,You are making me marry a person I don't know how he lives when he is in his own personal space.We share our personal spaces and nobody is ready to compromise on that.Earlier the whole era was different,Now there are a lot of things that affect our personal life.and before sharing them with a person it is important for us to know whether the ones who are entering this world of marriage are ready to accept each other's space.

Staying with a person for at least 6 months can tell us a lot and I personally believe that couples should opt for this to have a stronger and happily married ever after world.